Tuesday, July 05, 2005

The Straights made me do it

Stephanie Coontz, the author of "Marriage, a History: From Obedience to Intimacy, or How Love Conquered Marriage", argues in todays NY Times that the gay obsession to be granted marital rights stems from the systematic dismantling of rigid marital codes over the last 200 years BY STRAIGHTS!!

The gay groups charged with leading this fight need to challenge the other side to face up to the realities of modern marriage.

Money quote:
Giving married women an independent legal existence did not destroy heterosexual marriage. And allowing husbands and wives to construct their marriages around reciprocal duties and negotiated roles - where a wife can choose to be the main breadwinner and a husband can stay home with the children- was an immense boon to many couples. But these changes in the definition and practice of marriage opened the door for gay and lesbian couples to argue that they were now equally qualified to participate in it.

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